fix(uninstall): bound systemctl/podman teardown so uninstall can't hang

Uninstalling immich/grafana could hang with a frozen full-red progress
bar, leave a ghost entry stuck in My Apps, and then refuse reinstall.
Single root cause: quadlet::disable_remove() — called first in the
uninstall task (via companion + orchestrator teardown) — ran
`systemctl --user stop`, daemon-reload, and `podman rm -f` with NO
timeout. On rootless podman a generated unit can wedge in "deactivating"
while podman hangs underneath, so `systemctl stop` blocks forever. The
spawned uninstall task then never returns Ok or Err, so:
  - set_uninstall_stage() (after the stop) never fires → progress frozen;
  - remove_package_state_entry() never runs → entry stranded in
    `Removing` → ghost in My Apps;
  - the install guard rejects reinstall with "already Removing".

The spawn wrapper already reverts state on Err and removes the entry on
Ok — the only failure mode was a hang that returns neither. Bound the
teardown so it always terminates:
  - systemctl stop → QUADLET_STOP_TIMEOUT, escalate to kill+reset-failed
    on timeout (reuses the existing helpers);
  - daemon_reload_user() → bounded systemctl_user_status (30s);
  - defensive `podman rm -f` → wrapped in tokio timeout.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

core/archipelago/src/container/quadlet.rs

@@ -581,11 +581,12 @@ pub async fn write_if_changed(unit: &QuadletUnit, dir: &Path) -> Result<bool> {
 /// Reload the user systemd manager. Required after any quadlet write
 /// or removal so systemd picks up the generated `.service` translation.
 pub async fn daemon_reload_user() -> Result<()> {
-    let status = Command::new("systemctl")
+    // Bounded: a wedged user manager (e.g. a unit stuck "deactivating" while
-        .args(["--user", "daemon-reload"])
+    // podman hangs) could otherwise block daemon-reload indefinitely and freeze
-        .status()
+    // any caller — notably uninstall teardown.
+    let status = systemctl_user_status(&["daemon-reload"], Duration::from_secs(30))
         .await
-        .context("spawn systemctl --user daemon-reload")?;
+        .context("systemctl --user daemon-reload")?;
     if !status.success() {
         return Err(anyhow!("systemctl --user daemon-reload exited {status}"));
     }
@@ -787,11 +788,19 @@ fn directive_values(unit_body: &str, prefix: &str) -> Vec<String> {
 /// that systemd no longer knows about.
 pub async fn disable_remove(unit_name: &str, dir: &Path) -> Result<()> {
     let svc = format!("{unit_name}.service");
-    // Stop first; ignore failure (unit may already be down).
+    // Stop first; ignore failure (unit may already be down). BOUNDED — on
-    let _ = Command::new("systemctl")
+    // rootless podman a generated unit can wedge in "deactivating" while
-        .args(["--user", "stop", &svc])
+    // `podman rm -f` hangs underneath it, and an unbounded `systemctl stop`
-        .status()
+    // would block the entire uninstall forever: the progress bar freezes and
-        .await;
+    // the package entry is stranded in `Removing` (a ghost in My Apps that also
+    // blocks reinstall). If the graceful stop times out, escalate to
+    // SIGKILL + reset-failed so teardown always proceeds.
+    if systemctl_user_status(&["stop", &svc], QUADLET_STOP_TIMEOUT)
+        .await
+        .is_err()
+    {
+        let _ = kill_and_reset_service(&svc).await;
+    }
     let path = dir.join(format!("{unit_name}.container"));
     if fs::try_exists(&path).await.unwrap_or(false) {
         match fs::remove_file(&path).await {
@@ -802,9 +811,14 @@ pub async fn disable_remove(unit_name: &str, dir: &Path) -> Result<()> {
     }
     daemon_reload_user().await.ok();
     // Defensive: kill the actual container too, in case quadlet left it.
-    let _ = Command::new("podman")
+    // Bounded so a hung podman store can't re-introduce the stall this function
+    // exists to avoid.
+    let _ = tokio::time::timeout(
+        QUADLET_STOP_TIMEOUT,
+        Command::new("podman")
             .args(["rm", "-f", unit_name])
-        .status()
+            .status(),
+    )
     .await;
     Ok(())
 }